Table of Contents For

The Control Book

1 Introduction

1.1 What do you mean by dominance & submission
1.2 Conscious, subconscious and unconscious
1.3 Predispositions
1.4 Evolution

2 Control

2.1 The process
2.2 Consolidating control
2.3 Losing control
2.4 Reward and encouragement
2.5 Giving back control
2.6 Focus of control
2.7 Safewords
2.8 Control-taking and privacy

3 Communication

3.1 Division of labour
3.2 Submissive logic
3.3 Person-to-person
3.4 Three

4 Management

4.1 Two different types of control
4.2 Planning and management
4.3 Ritual
4.4 Structure
4.5 Ownership
4.6 Delegation

5 Discussion topics

5.1 Closure
5.2 Magic
5.3 Satiation
5.4 Humour
5.5 Rhythm
5.6 Feeling controlled
5.7 Consequences of orders
5.8 Difference between a slave and a submissive
5.9 Cookbook dominance
5.10 Less than open
5.11 What place love?
5.12 Hard and soft limits